Sunday, July 12, 2020

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne is a dating and life coach that I found March of 2018 while I was studying abroad in England. 

I could not sleep one night, so at 3am I decided to YouTube ways of attracting girls through Facebook and texting. I found a video of his, and I soon realized that I had stumbled onto something great. 

His advice resonated and I began binge watching his videos. He totally opened my eyes and changed my life regarding dating and understanding women.

He first book is called "How To Be a 3% Man" which you can get for free on Audible. He has thousands of videos on YouTube and here's one that you may enjoy around getting over rejection.

Image result for corey wayne 3 percent manWatching his videos and reading and rereading his book is a great free curriculum that I have been engulfed in, on and off ever since I found him.

Being a 3% man is basically being part of the 3% of men that understand women. The book gives a lot of advice and information about pickup, seduction, dating, and relationships. Understanding attraction and how to create it with women. Along with learning the things that most guys do to turn women off.

He really covers all areas of dating and the stages of relationships, to make you well rounded in this realm.

I imagine a lot of people have their own ideas and negative connotations about "Pickup artistry", but it goes very deep into attraction, love and understanding masculine and feminine energies. 

It's a lot more than just getting laid. It's about mastering the area of dating as a straight man, to find the best women to spend time with and learn from.

I believe it is very important as a man to learn the appropriate things to say and do, along with what not to say or do with women you are attracted to.

He has thousands of coaching videos online that pair very well with the knowledge in his book, it's a great way to stay sharp with his work and be continuously learning from him.

He also has a book called "Mastering Yourself" which you can get on Audible for free. He talks about his rough childhood, and he goes through his failures to show how he got to where he is now.

I invite you all to check him out. I go through bouts of watching his videos everyday,  he is an online mentor for me that I enjoy sharing with all the men who are open to improving their dating and social skills.

Some men are naturally good with women, I was not, it took me awhile to finally kiss a girl (16) so I looked for outside help, and eventually found Corey Wayne, among other people.

So I encourage all men to check him out, among any other seduction gurus and dating coaches that you trust and believe in.

It can be rough and confusing when you are out their talking to and meeting women. Going out there to date with no knowledge is kind of like going into battle with no armor, no weapon, and no plan. Just a naked man running into a field of women with his dick flapping in the wind. That's not an attractive site.

Making mistakes is inevitable, and having a guy like this to learn from while you are making those mistakes will only help. If you stick with it, you'll learn to be better equipped as a man to go after nice looking women that you are attracted to with confidence.

My dating life is drastically better because of this bald headed fuck. He's got the goods :)

Sunday, July 5, 2020

What I’m out to Cause

I am out to shake up, and wake up men to their potential, by simply quitting this habit of watching porn. I have a new found faith in my abilities, my value, and my future from beginning this journey and sticking with it. I want to share it with other men, to see what else opens up from there. 

I'm also committed to generating discussions around masculinity and self improvement. I believe that things really come to fruition from continuously mastering myself and my urges. These are new found passions of mine that I'm learning about, so I am looking to bring men along with me on this journey to grow and learn from each other.

As human beings we can be run by our blindspots. One blind spot most men have is really getting where everything we use came from (Buildings, technology, methods of transportation.)

These things were made possible by the men before us who built them. Which has allowed modern men to abuse the fruits of their labor with eating poorly and excessive TV and porn watching etc. I'm certainly guilty of this over indulgence, and am now rebooting myself through doing personal work to heal and grow, and to continuously cut out those habits.

Quitting porn allowed me to rediscover how I have been showing up for women I wanted to attract, and allow myself to stop feeding my lust and my ego around sex. I've begun to understand how in my head I have been around dating, and my expectations on sex and "relationships".

I was attempting to build a house starting with the roof and the windows before building a solid foundation. Going out to get laid, and putting on a facade to impress women, while I was pushing away the healing I needed to do from past relationships. While watching porn gave me a skewed view of what I "should" be getting from women. I had an unstable foundation for dating.

      Creating this group of supportive and trusting men to share masculine struggles and ideas with will make for more effective, powerful, and self expressed men. Holding myself accountable for holding this space will deepen these distinctions in my own life as well. 

This is a Men's only group because this is work for men to do. If you are trying to quit porn, it's not your wife or your girlfriends job to help you. It's your dick, it's your phone and or laptop, and it's your habit, it's on you fella. It's great if women are out there helping their men with this, but it's the man's responsibility to master his own taliwacker. 

The level of sharing will be deeper and more intimate with only men, as we won't have to worry about "over"sharing and potentially turning off a potential female of interest. One of the goals of all of this is to become stronger and more equipped for the women in our lives as romantic partners, brothers, sons, fathers, etc.

Having this environment to learn from, could be the first step for many of you to begin your journey in kicking this habit of watching porn. It may be something you are doing unconsciously that is taking away your personal power. 

Quitting it was something that allowed me to become the man I’ve always wanted to be. I now focus on what I want to create for the world, rather than doing things to get women to like me.

Do it before it’s too late and you lose hope in going after your dreams. Awaken that beast within you, stop keeping him subdued with easy, unearned pleasure and instant gratification. So many women are hungry for men who are hungry for their purpose. As are your family members, friends, strangers you encounter and other men in your life.

I am here to support you, and to share my struggles and my story of currently quitting porn. Along with sharing Josh Hudson and his work. He is the man who created the online course to quit porn for good, finding him on YouTube a few months ago is why I am writing this right now. It provoked me to go down this path and rediscover myself.  

      With all of my struggles in dating, creativity, and self development, I have felt like I've been missing something, and it was that I was still watching porn. I was attempting to build my life on top of a wobbly foundation. 

I truly believe that quitting porn is the first step to becoming a great man and unleashing your true self. In taking this first step, I'm beginning to peel back more layers and find the next steps to building myself as a man. The men before us didn't have as much access to porn as we do. That's why they created so much for us. I can guarantee that porn is holding you back in ways that you are unaware of. 

What I am out to provide you in this group, is sharing my story through videos and blogs and covering various topics in this realm of masculinity and self improvement. You will also see videos from various other sources including Josh Hudson. He's an amazing dude making a huge difference for guys with his online course for quitting porn.

I also share many videos from other great men and sources online that I watch and get value and inspiration from. I hope to inspire many conversations among men outside of myself. I've had many great chats with men about this stuff in the last few months and am excited to keep that going!

If this is something that resonated with you, stay in this group and check out what is going on here, and check out the course. It’s not a requirement to do the course to be in this group, but I really believe in it, and it provoked me to quit porn and create this group.

You are welcome to participate in sharing your struggles, stories, and videos or just watch and read what I post here. I'm open to however it grows and evolves, if you have ideas of where it can go, let me know, I'm open to listening :)

 It is a deeper conversation that many men are hungry for, and I am excited to bring it to you all and to see what you all have to share!