The Matrix (The system we've all been plugged into)

 What is the Matrix?

It is a system, that we have all been plugged into. A system that was created to keep us all in line... go to school then get a job like everyone else. It has kept most of humanity in a state of fear and slavery, while tricking us into believing we've been free. Primarily disconnected from nature, and glued to our phones, laptops, and other forms of technology and brainwashing :)

If you have not seen The Matrix, this is the pivotal scene and a great metaphor to show the two types of people. The people who take the blue pill, who stay "blissfully" ignorant, and believe what they are told by the mainstream media, and do not question authority. They live by the rules of the Matrix.

Then you have the people who take the red pill. The people who want the truth even at the expense of their own safety, their own comfort, and their livelihoods. 

Because it is dissatisfying to live by some one else's rules when you have plans of your own. This is where the rebels and the innovators come from.

Right now this has been playing out with COVID 19. There are people walking around outside in the hot sun with their face masks on. People staying in their homes, or staying as far away from any other human as possible when they do leave their homes. Believing that the main stream media is telling them the entire truth about the illness and the dangers of it.

There are also people walking around outside, showing off their smiles, petting friendly dogs walking around with their owners, and creating conversations with the strangers the media has convinced most of us are dangerous.

How has The Matrix been working?

There is a basic outline to life. Go to school, get good grades, so you can go to a good college, so you can get a degree, so you can get a job. With the progression of this outline, colleges have become so expensive for kids that they are left with upwards of $150,000 in student loans to spend their entire lives paying off.

Then you get married and have kids, so you can create more human beings who believe in this outline of life. 

I'm grateful that I've usually questioned this outline, but unfortunately for most people it seems like it's "too late". They realized once they were 60 years old and close to retiring that their following of this outline did not satisfy them. It was not their souls purpose, and they lived a life of vague dissatisfaction according to someone else's plan.

That is essentially the Matrix's social conditioning system. Go along with what every body else is doing, because it's "normal". You want to fit in right? It's good to fit in!

This is playing off of our fear of death in our evolutionary psychology. Back in the day when we were in nomadic tribes, if we did not go along with the tribe's rules, we could be kicked out. If we got kicked out, we'd have to fend for ourselves against the wild animals and such, and we'd most likely die on our own.

Now, we have iPhones in our pockets, comfortable apartments and endless amounts of media to watch, and we are still triggered by this fear of death around being ostracized by the people in our communities. 

It has been a subconscious attack on our deepest insecurity, while making us believe that it is for the benefit of ourselves and every one around us to go along with the status quo. 

Even though many of us have this underlying sense of something not being "right" with how life is, we go along with it because that's what every one else is doing. 

Why do we have War? Why are why mean to our friends and family? Why do we have to work when everything was put here on Earth for us to survive? Because this system was created to create more wealth and control for those who have created it.

Who Created this Matrix?

So we have an outline for life, most people follow it, and perpetuate it for generations in their
own families. But who really created this outline? Can you name that person? How long ago was this outline created? What is the purpose of creating such an outline?

Most people just follow along with this outline because their parents told them to. Like their parents told them. Why? "Because those are the "rules" People like saying that and being good little rule followers.

But now with school being so expensive, people just work to pay off the debt that they acquired to get through school. Creating people who are too busy to investigate the fact that they've been lied to their entire lives by the media and society.

I don't know for sure who created this Matrix, but there are many theories around Reptilians, politicians, royal families, and other elite beings. This system was created to control the masses, and to create more wealth for these elite beings.

It's easy to control lots of people when we all share the same beliefs. When we all believe this idea, it is easy to demonize those who go against the system because they are "making it more difficult" to go along with the plan, according to the plan.

Questioning the Matrix

When people speak out against this system, they are often condemned and shamed. Because this system has trained people to believe in the matrix, and that those who oppose it are causing harm to them and everything they have built. Triggering our fear of being ostracized and death. 

Galileo was right about the Earth revolving around the sun, and they locked him up for it. Just because he questioned the mainstream narrative, he questioned everyone's beliefs, thus triggering the insecurities and uncertainties, people don't like having that done to them. 

We are so quick to condemn people who question this system because it triggers our own fear, and our own doubts of "maybe I'm wrong about this." So I will not be surprised if people get upset at me for writing this blog post :)

We are conditioned and programmed in so many different ways, so it's difficult to be aware and label all of them. People get so distracted and bogged down by life (work, kids, money, material possessions, social status) that they blindly live in and defend this system. People are so in the system that they cannot see it for what it is. It's like a fish in a fish bowl thinking that they are in the ocean, and that they are aware of the entirety of life.

People also have a lot invested in this Matrix (Cars, houses, Instagram followers). So when you let them know that they could be living a lie, they get a glimpse of the amount of time and energy spent on these ideas that have been serving other peoples agendas. They will be upset and deny the truth for awhile, and get angry with you for exposing this unpleasant truth. Denial is the first stage of grief. 

We are on Earth, and we really have no idea how we got here. We have so much bad information pushed at us from the media. Along with there being much hidden information that is online and in books.  We don't have enough time to read every single book that has ever been written or will be written in the future. Along with watching every single movie and documentary that has been and will be will be made. 

So we're all going off of a lack of information, yet so many of us are certain about how life is. WHY? Because it makes us comfortable to pretend to know how life actually is. 

We're been tricked into believing what we are told because it makes us feel okay for the moment in "knowing" that other people believe this too, therefore we are okay. JUST FIT IN, JUST BE NORMAL.

This denial comes at a cost, and that cost has pushed many people to the edge, and they are finally waking up to the lies and corruption that has been running humanity!

THE END IS NIGH!!

The year is 2020 and a global shit storm has ensued. The system is crumbling, and it has been for awhile. That's why mask wearing and social distancing have been forced upon us, so that the elites can milk their power for as long as they can. To keep us separated from each other and in fear. If people buy into social distancing, they will want to stay away from each other. We humans are social creatures, and we need our human contact to thrive. 

Forest fires, explosions, protests, riots, looting, elections, angry facebook posts, and civil unrest. This cycle of bull shit has been running through us for our entire lives and it is finally being exposed, which looks like all of this madness playing out. It's going to take some time to purge out the old bad stuff to bring in the new good stuff, SO BE PATIENT AND KEEP WAKING UP! :)

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We don't have to work anymore, the government can just print money and or put it into our accounts. We know we can't trust our politicians, and we won't have to worry about the government dictating us anymore. This is the hope and plans that I have been hearing from so many people. 

Children have been trafficked since the beginning of time, and they are being rescued from bunkers as we speak. Covid and the huge push for BLM has been a distraction from this fall of corruption, and most of us just get to sit back and watch it unfold, to bring in the age of information.

People are out their exposing the truth and saving the children from this generational torture. The Matrix is crumbling and the beings who created it know this, so they are continuing to throw consequences and inconveniences at us, and this may continue for awhile longer.

So do what you can to unplug from the Matrix. Go into nature, quit your job if you can, and get off of social media. The mainstream narrative has been pumping fear and lies at us for as long as I can remember. I've never really trusted it, and if you have, it's time to start questioning the validity of it!

Stay rooted in your truth of love. Love wins, and it always will. Do your research and stay safe. The New Earth is coming soon for those who wake up to the truth and work on improving themselves with love and compassion. <3 :) 

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne is a dating and life coach that I found March of 2018 while I was studying abroad in England. 

I could not sleep one night, so at 3am I decided to YouTube ways of attracting girls through Facebook and texting. I found a video of his, and I soon realized that I had stumbled onto something great. 

His advice resonated and I began binge watching his videos. He totally opened my eyes and changed my life regarding dating and understanding women.

He first book is called "How To Be a 3% Man" which you can get for free on Audible. He has thousands of videos on YouTube and here's one that you may enjoy around getting over rejection.

Watching his videos and reading and rereading his book is a great free curriculum that I have been engulfed in, on and off ever since I found him.

Being a 3% man is basically being part of the 3% of men that understand women. The book gives a lot of advice and information about pickup, seduction, dating, and relationships. Understanding attraction and how to create it with women. Along with learning the things that most guys do to turn women off.

He really covers all areas of dating and the stages of relationships, to make you well rounded in this realm.

I imagine a lot of people have their own ideas and negative connotations about "Pickup artistry", but it goes very deep into attraction, love and understanding masculine and feminine energies. 

It's a lot more than just getting laid. It's about mastering the area of dating as a straight man, to find the best women to spend time with and learn from.

I believe it is very important as a man to learn the appropriate things to say and do, along with what not to say or do with women you are attracted to.

He has thousands of coaching videos online that pair very well with the knowledge in his book, it's a great way to stay sharp with his work and be continuously learning from him.

He also has a book called "Mastering Yourself" which you can get on Audible for free. He talks about his rough childhood, and he goes through his failures to show how he got to where he is now.

I invite you all to check him out. I go through bouts of watching his videos everyday,  he is an online mentor for me that I enjoy sharing with all the men who are open to improving their dating and social skills.

Some men are naturally good with women, I was not, it took me awhile to finally kiss a girl (16) so I looked for outside help, and eventually found Corey Wayne, among other people.

So I encourage all men to check him out, among any other seduction gurus and dating coaches that you trust and believe in.

It can be rough and confusing when you are out their talking to and meeting women. Going out there to date with no knowledge is kind of like going into battle with no armor, no weapon, and no plan. Just a naked man running into a field of women with his dick flapping in the wind. That's not an attractive site.

Making mistakes is inevitable, and having a guy like this to learn from while you are making those mistakes will only help. If you stick with it, you'll learn to be better equipped as a man to go after nice looking women that you are attracted to with confidence.

My dating life is drastically better because of this bald headed fuck. He's got the goods :)

What I’m out to Cause

I am out to shake up, and wake up men to their potential, by simply quitting this habit of watching porn. I have a new found faith in my abilities, my value, and my future from beginning this journey and sticking with it. I want to share it with other men, to see what else opens up from there. 

I'm also committed to generating discussions around masculinity and self improvement. I believe that things really come to fruition from continuously mastering myself and my urges. These are new found passions of mine that I'm learning about, so I am looking to bring men along with me on this journey to grow and learn from each other.

As human beings we can be run by our blindspots. One blind spot most men have is really getting where everything we use came from (Buildings, technology, methods of transportation.)

These things were made possible by the men before us who built them. Which has allowed modern men to abuse the fruits of their labor with eating poorly and excessive TV and porn watching etc. I'm certainly guilty of this over indulgence, and am now rebooting myself through doing personal work to heal and grow, and to continuously cut out those habits.

Quitting porn allowed me to rediscover how I have been showing up for women I wanted to attract, and allow myself to stop feeding my lust and my ego around sex. I've begun to understand how in my head I have been around dating, and my expectations on sex and "relationships".

I was attempting to build a house starting with the roof and the windows before building a solid foundation. Going out to get laid, and putting on a facade to impress women, while I was pushing away the healing I needed to do from past relationships. While watching porn gave me a skewed view of what I "should" be getting from women. I had an unstable foundation for dating.

      Creating this group of supportive and trusting men to share masculine struggles and ideas with will make for more effective, powerful, and self expressed men. Holding myself accountable for holding this space will deepen these distinctions in my own life as well. 

This is a Men's only group because this is work for men to do. If you are trying to quit porn, it's not your wife or your girlfriends job to help you. It's your dick, it's your phone and or laptop, and it's your habit, it's on you fella. It's great if women are out there helping their men with this, but it's the man's responsibility to master his own taliwacker. 

The level of sharing will be deeper and more intimate with only men, as we won't have to worry about "over"sharing and potentially turning off a potential female of interest. One of the goals of all of this is to become stronger and more equipped for the women in our lives as romantic partners, brothers, sons, fathers, etc.

Having this environment to learn from, could be the first step for many of you to begin your journey in kicking this habit of watching porn. It may be something you are doing unconsciously that is taking away your personal power. 

Quitting it was something that allowed me to become the man I’ve always wanted to be. I now focus on what I want to create for the world, rather than doing things to get women to like me.

Do it before it’s too late and you lose hope in going after your dreams. Awaken that beast within you, stop keeping him subdued with easy, unearned pleasure and instant gratification. So many women are hungry for men who are hungry for their purpose. As are your family members, friends, strangers you encounter and other men in your life.

I am here to support you, and to share my struggles and my story of currently quitting porn. Along with sharing Josh Hudson and his work. He is the man who created the online course to quit porn for good, finding him on YouTube a few months ago is why I am writing this right now. It provoked me to go down this path and rediscover myself.  

      With all of my struggles in dating, creativity, and self development, I have felt like I've been missing something, and it was that I was still watching porn. I was attempting to build my life on top of a wobbly foundation. 

I truly believe that quitting porn is the first step to becoming a great man and unleashing your true self. In taking this first step, I'm beginning to peel back more layers and find the next steps to building myself as a man. The men before us didn't have as much access to porn as we do. That's why they created so much for us. I can guarantee that porn is holding you back in ways that you are unaware of. 

What I am out to provide you in this group, is sharing my story through videos and blogs and covering various topics in this realm of masculinity and self improvement. You will also see videos from various other sources including Josh Hudson. He's an amazing dude making a huge difference for guys with his online course for quitting porn.

I also share many videos from other great men and sources online that I watch and get value and inspiration from. I hope to inspire many conversations among men outside of myself. I've had many great chats with men about this stuff in the last few months and am excited to keep that going!

If this is something that resonated with you, stay in this group and check out what is going on here, and check out the course. It’s not a requirement to do the course to be in this group, but I really believe in it, and it provoked me to quit porn and create this group.

You are welcome to participate in sharing your struggles, stories, and videos or just watch and read what I post here. I'm open to however it grows and evolves, if you have ideas of where it can go, let me know, I'm open to listening :)

 It is a deeper conversation that many men are hungry for, and I am excited to bring it to you all and to see what you all have to share!  

Wim Hof

One element of doing Nofap is taking cold showers. I dabbled in taking them but never really committed to it. They were uncomfortable and I didn't get why I should take them.

When I would continue to relapse to porn, I didn't understand "why" I kept relapsing until I took Josh's course. Josh breaks down the effect it has on the mind, and I saw that I used porn as a stress and anxiety reducing tool among many other things.

A guy in my Men's group shared ten things that he does for instant gratification, and ten things he can do to replace those habits. Number eight was to do the Wim Hof breathing technique. "Hmm... Interesting." I thought.

Wim Hof just relaxing

I have been intrigued by breath work for awhile but unaware of what that exactly meant. I've meditated and practiced focusing on my breath before, but never practiced any breathing techniques.

Being that I'd been off porn for 40 days or so, my vigorous curiosity got the best of me and I dove head first into the Wim.

After learning about Wim Hof and his breathing method and cold therapy. I finally understood the benefits of taking cold showers. As he breaks down the science and benefits behind them. I've been doing them every day for over a month now.

He is an incredibly passionate, knowledgable, and fascinating guy. To boil him down to a title, you could call him a Dutch Daredevil, among many other things. He's also known as the Ice Man.

Overall, he is an impressive and lovely person that I have become a super fan of. He has an absolutely amazing story and an incredible track record of feats like holding the record for longest swim under water. Running half marathons with no shoes. And climbing Mt. Kilamanjaro and Mt. Everest with only shorts and boots on.

I watched a couple videos of people partaking in his breathing method and jumped into a guided breathing session. I've since been doing the technique and taking cold showers everyday. Here's the video I made about doing it for ten days in a row. It explains how it works, and shows my experience with it.

Doing the technique creates an intense tingling, buzzing, ringing, and vibrating in close to all parts of the body. It's such a connecting and transcendent experience. Along with being a great way to take control your body and mind when feeling stressed, it's the best way to get high on your own supply!

This Vice Documentary  shows what he does well. It also shows off his personality and explains why he got into all of this stuff. His journey is rooted in a tragedy which I will let you discover on your own. He's so fun and innocent and completely knowledgeable and intelligent about the body, and you understand why when you hear his back story.

This is also a great intro to Wim Hof and everything he is about.  It's an interview by Russel Brand on his podcast. You can also listen with just audio on the purple podcast app when you're on the go! Under The Skin with Russell Brand Episode #70. It's an even more extensive look into Wim Hof's purpose.

He has an amazing energy and vigor for teaching and spreading this message of assisting your body to heal itself with his breathing technique and exposure to cold water.

Since doing this technique everyday along with taking cold showers I have a new baseline of more energy and excitement to get things done. Having found this after quitting porn, it just stacks on top of my progress perfectly.

My dream is to meet Wim Hof and do one of his retreats. He holds them in his lake house in Poland, where he takes people through the breathing technique, and has them jump into freezing cold water in the middle of winter and hike mountains in only their shorts... Good stuff.

Check out my video to see how you to start doing the technique and go check out some other Wim Hof stuff online . He truly is an inspiration and someone who has paved his way perfectly through life. So I find him fitting to be the first REBEL I write about on this blog :)

My Case For Action

This is my Case for Action in creating my Men’s Group, Rebel Rationale. This is what I see is happening to modern day men in my community and in society regarding porn and masturbating.

1.    What is so right now about this area?

Men are secretly struggling with an “addiction” to a synthetic sexual stimulus called porn. It primarily negatively affects how we develop relationships with real women romantically. Along with socializing in general, self-esteem, confidence and contentment in life.  Masturbating to porn is an easily accepted form of sexual expression, stress release and self-savagery to all men who partake in it. It's also one of the many ways men are brainwashed out of their personal power today.

      In my community, I see no men’s group, or places for men to share their struggles with porn, dating, their masculinity, and their true self-expression. The world is full of incels (involuntary celibates), and sexually frustrated boys and men who turn to porn, and even violence and other harmful behaviors to let out this pent up energy.

      Most men are blind to how porn is truly affecting their minds, their bodies, their behaviors, and their overall well beings. Because, most men don’t know the scientific facts regarding porn intake on the mind. They don't understand that porn is completely FREE for a reason (To keep you a slave to your dick and your emotions) Or they have not fully grasped or become present to the negative effects it has on their lives.

      Men often masturbate compulsively, and without wanting to do it. It's become a nervous itch to be constantly and sporadically scratched. I never felt good after an episode like this, just like most men. There is a feeling of helplessness, and being a slave to your urges and sexual thoughts. Men are shooting out their sperm cheaply, to a (most likely) emotionally damaged woman they have never met before, on a computer screen. Not knowing that their semen is a scientifically proven super nutrient for their bodies and minds.

      There is a disconnect between love, romance, and sexual release. I have been living in this disconnect since I was 14 years old. I began watching porn and masturbating to it before I even kissed a girl. It absolutely negatively affected my confidence with women and dating.

I have been working my way backwards with dating ever since. So all of these claims I am making are from my own experience and understanding of behavior and sexuality.

I am asserting that there’s a generation of men who are hurting themselves and their futures by partaking in watching porn and compulsively masturbating.

      Many millennial men and younger can relate to this, having grown up with the internet so present. It is so easy and desirable to watch porn and masturbate. It feels great in the moment, but we are not present to the long lasting effects it has on our young minds. Boys and men are not present to these effects. I am asserting that if you watch porn and masturbate to it, it is having a negative effect on you in a lot of ways, and in ways that you are completely unaware of.

2.   What is the predictable future in this area if no action is taken?

Men in my community and beyond will continue to struggle with finding their purpose, achieving their goals, dating beautiful women, if they continue to watch porn. Even if they have a sense that it is damaging to them.

They will continue to be enslaved by their sexual urges and general impulses because they will not begin mastering their minds, impulses and habits in this area.

The subconscious and unconscious cycle of shame and misery around jerking off to strangers fucking on a screen will continue.

Men will not identify this as something that holds them back, or see it as something that hurts their effectiveness and happiness in life. They will leave courage, boldness, immense energy and productivity on the table by continuing to shoot out their semen compulsively.

Men will not reach or strive for their true higher selves. They’ll die never knowing how much more was left in the tank, because they remained ignorant to the effects porn had on their ability to continuously create their own lives.

 Men will die never knowing that they could have achieved so much more in their careers, their love lives, and so many other areas. They will remain “asleep” to the damage being done on their mental, emotional and psychological well-being. 

Men will continue to make excuses for their lack of success with women, their careers, social lives, and being unhealthy. We will continue to breed men who avoid delayed gratification, hardship, and never develop true grit.

Men will continue to numb themselves, sleep walking through life, and never seeing themselves as a person truly responsible for their actions and overall well-being.

I have had all of these thoughts prior to quitting porn. I was a slave to my sexual urges. I knew I wanted to get work done, and would give into a sexual thought, only to feel bad afterwards EVERY SINLGE TIME. "Fuck, I didn't want to jerk off, and I did, now I feel worse physically, mentally and emotionally." That's not how I really talked to myself, but that was all true.

I would feel stressed or anxious, and the next thing I knew I was watching porn. I am now able to see my stress and anxiety, notice that those feelings trigger my sexual urges, and move on from it. Because I am aware of it now.

I was a victim to my own mind, and unable to resist the temptress of instant gratification. I had been rationalizing for years how it wasn’t that bad, and it allowed me to release that distraction. I was giving up my sexual energy and mental well being to a pixelated woman on a screen. Which continuously hurt my confidence and social skills with real women.

 Never giving myself the opportunity to TRANSMUTE my sexual energy into passion around my creativity, to exercising and generating ideas and money, like I am now. Sexual transmutation is an incredible phenomenon that I’ll be covering in this group.

This transmuted energy has built buildings, cars, the internet, all of these amazing technological and physical things in life from great men who conquered their own sexual urges to use it for manifesting greatness.

3.   The way the future could be in this area if a new possibility is created!

Men can admit that they have a problem with porn. Realize that porn is having a negative effect on their minds, their relationships, and their ability to socialize with and approach women.

Men could be open about their struggles with porn addiction, and how it has affected their dating, their masculinity and other areas. There could be more self-expression, and less stifling of vulnerability among men. This group will be a safe and trustworthy place for men to share openly and honestly.

Men will find out that they really can over come this addiction and master their sexual impulses, their minds, and their realities.

Once men get a handle on this area of their life, (whether you think it’s a problem or not) things will open up in ways you previously thought impossible. I wasn't doing it everyday. I was once or twice a week with an occasional 2 week streak. Making an effort to get off it for the long haul has allowed me to grow exponentially every single day. I learn and create something new every new 24 hours I get.

Dropping this negative habit and stepping into mastering your mind will unlock a newfound energy, effectiveness and vigor for life!

You WILL have the experience of dropping many other bad habits from your life by doing this, as it is a natural progression to tackle more areas of your life once you get on this roll.

Men will stop being victims to their impulses, and will be in control when they get an urge and stop subconsciously going to masturbate to a computer screen.

      Men will start to create things and produce results they have been thinking about for a long time and begin to see themselves as powerful for conquering this addiction.

     

      I have begun to reap these benefits, in creating 3-5 times more videos than before. Exercising every day, eating WAY healthier, and taking on areas of my life that I have been numb to for years.

      I am more confident and self expressed with talking to people, and communicating my wants and desires. I understand the value I have as a man, and with what I carry in my balls. Growing in physical, mental, and emotional strength, I am on a roll with attacking obstacles and achieving my goals.

      I’m here to tell you that this shit is true and it works. It will work if you make it work, if you believe in yourself, and  if you want it bad enough.

What allowed me to fully quit was taking this course. It breaks down what porn really does to your mind, your brain, your social life, and your physical strength. You will meet Josh in this video, and he'll explain what the course is like.

It has truly changed my life. I knew that when I watched his video that something dope was going to come from this, and I'm so glad I clicked it. It was so worth the money I spent, and I am now making it back by signing up other guys for the course.

It works, and I'm the proof, along with hundreds of other guys. I now talk to Josh regularly sending him texts and having phone calls. He's my buddy and supports my videos and my music. He's just a great dude, he really cares about people and he's created an amazing course on quitting porn that truly works, with a 30 day money back guarantee.

So, click on this link to check out the course, and hit me up for any questions. Thank you for reading this. Amazing shit is going to happen in this group. :)

Introduction to "Rebel Rationale"

What is this group?

Hello everyone, and welcome! This is a place to express ideas around self-improvement, masculinity, and to question mainstream ideas that don’t necessarily serve us as individuals and as men. Thus the rebellious name and the rationalizing of why it is actually important. I see that questioning everything is vital to happiness and success. We were not all put here to to go to school, get married and have kids. We get to choose what our lives look like.

Here is a brief video introduction of the group :)

I'll be sharing about various topics in my own videos and blogs. Along with sharing videos and stuff from other people I find on the Internet. You are all also welcome to share your own videos and articles on here, that you find relevant to self improvement. You all have something to contribute, and there is a reason I invited you to this group.

 I have been been quitting porn since April 8th and achieved my highest streak of 64 days! I'll be sharing my own experience with that along the way. I see it as the key factor to actually creating this group. Along with unlocking myself as a man in many other ways. It's put me on a real path of developing healthy habits, and improving my life and my environment.

In the past, I wanted to create a men's group, but never did due to feelings of shame. As I felt it was "disrespectful" not to include women, I was scared of ridicule around that. I don't anymore, as I see the benefit that men's groups actually have, having been in one for a few months around quitting porn.

This is a place for men to become better versions of themselves and to have fun learning and growing. My intention is to share what I have learned in these areas, and to connect with men on deeper levels about their masculinity, and their goals, and to provoke you to unlock your higher selves too :)

Men evolved from surviving in the wilderness, in tribes, and we have lost sight of this. Due to how much we have advanced from previous men’s hard work of building buildings, advancing technology etcetera. We don’t have the need for tribes of men, battling the elements, and struggling to survive and thrive. 

We have buildings full of men jerking off, eating ice cream, and waking up resentful of having their 9-5 jobs. We don't have to live this way, men have been struggling because we aren't being challenged. This group may not be as intense or dramatic as that scene in Fight Club, but it hits home with what modern men are dealing with.

As men we now get create hardships for ourselves, as we don't have to fight off sabre tooth tigers to protect our pregnant wives by... (lifting weights, running, taking classes to test our minds).This is how we become stronger and improve ourselves as modern men.

Masculinity grows with challenge, and we have to create many of our own challenges to become better with how luxurious our lives have become. With everyone having a computer in their pocket, and social media reminding us and promoting that we aren't having as much fun as everyone else. There is work to be done in having groups of men convene to talk about man shit. 

One part of this group will be around quitting porn, as I see it as the first step to resetting as a man with regards to women, success, and your relationship to your own manhood. I encourage you all to check out the course I took on quitting porn, and know that it's not a requirement to be in the group. You are welcome to watch what I post, be active in the comments, and post your own positive stuff on here too.

Other topics of discussion will be semen retention, dating, exercise, spirituality, nutrition, TV, movies, music, PC culture and other topics that people are interested in.

       This group is going to be a lot of fun, and a great place to share as fellow men. You are welcome to spread the word and invite other men into the group too. Thanks for reading and I’m excited to begin this journey with you all!